Saturday, March 25, 2006

hey schplay

Will I ever feel comfortable in a swimming suit?
Will I ever feel like I'm ready to get married?
Will I ever have a pet ferret (again)?
Will I ever date a Russian?
Will I ever write and interesting blog?
Will I ever have a job that is fantastic?
Will I ever go anywhere?
Will I ever be able to tolerate children?
Will I ever not be socially awkward?
Will I ever learn to dance?
Some plaguing questions that have been on my mind once or twice in my life.

11 comments:

plugalong said...

I think you've just written an intersting blog. This could touch anyone in some way, it provokes thought, and makes you human. Love this. Success!

deb said...

I think you are a fantastic dancer Nikki. I don't think anyone is ever really ready to get married. They just convince themselves otherwhise. Children will never be tolerable as long as they have vocal chords...even if they are cute. (Note: I still want to get married and have children)

Trisha said...

i think you will learn to love shildren. i also think you will be ready to be married at some point. i do not think you will ever feel comfortable in a swimsuit. it is not possible. i HOPE you get to date a russian. i would love that. good blog.

smart alec said...

Yes, the swimsuit situation is never good for anyone. I think you can be ready to spend every waking moment with a person - namely a boy - but I don't know about everything else that goes on with marriage - I don't know if anyone can be ready for that (but I still want it...and children also). Russian's accents are fun. You should definitely date one....hey, hasn't this topic already come up?

And your dancing is exquisit...but I don't think that is how you spell it.

micquel said...

well, I have to agree with most everything stated thus far. Fantastic dancing skills, indeed. I am pretty sure that Debbie is right about the people just convincing themselves about marriage, and about a lot of other things. Like everything, in my case. I don't know what this says at all and class is about to start...

Trisha said...

YOU ALL WILL FEEL DUMB ABOUT SAYING THESE THINGS! i mean, about convincing yourself to get married. when you DO get married... i doubt it will be the case.

Unknown said...

AH! Everyone is telling me that they think I'm going to get married withing the next year and it's quite pooey. It makes a girl think, though...I mean, what if? It is just too weird to think about.

smart alec said...

I know. I mean, I always picture myself when I am married, but thinking about it actually happening gives me the heebeegeebees. Sometimes I think I am totally ready, but then reality hits and I realize I am totally not.

deb said...

SO YOUNG.

Babs said...

Man, look at the deep thoughts that surface because of your amazing thoughts Nikki.

Marriage:... I'm totally excited to have someone to share almost everything with. To do cute little things for him letting him know I adore him. He'd better do cute things back though.. or I'd probably lose the motivation... Oh well.

It's frightening when you hear about husbands and wives having issues with how eachother gets the toothpaste out of the tube. Or, other quarky annoying things. I hope that doesn't put too much of a damper on things. It sounds so pathetic right now... but it probably does make some peoples blood boil. Bummer.

I think the most exciting part though is having kids. I can just imagine that we'll have somewhat similar personalities, and then we'll have a blast. Hahah... I'll have to some how convince them that I'm actually cool, and that hanging out with your mom is really cool too.... Humm... I'll think about it, and tell you all the answer some day.

Wow. That was a lengthy load of... nothing really.

Trisha said...

i also sometimes feel like i am ready to get married. but then i actually think about it and it freaks me out. being with a guy all of the time sounds really nice. the whole paying bills while going to school does not. i think a lot about having kids and how i want to raise them. man alive, we are too little to think of these things.